tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post3129877915113460302..comments2009-05-23T06:44:11.391-04:00Blogniggerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14573754352848039559noreply@blogger.comBlogger44125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-3031866923586048172009-05-23T04:16:44.570-04:002009-05-23T04:16:44.570-04:00This is depressing. I feel like I should show this post to every guy I date long-term in order to provide them of such a relief. But being that I know, what do I get?jitneynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-63147371329228681962008-11-26T15:24:00.000-05:002008-11-26T15:24:00.000-05:00the difference between men and women: men believe women don't need sex as badly as they do. women KNOW men need sex as bady as they do and all else follows from there.<BR/><BR/>married woman: two lovers on the side, considering a third.<BR/><BR/>husband: probably getting handjobs and/or bjs. thinks i don't know. all i have to notice is how he looks, when he looks.<BR/><BR/>men: remain clueless and never 100% free of guilt.<BR/><BR/>women: most of them getting it on the side, yet still managing to inflict guilt feelings on hubby's desires and/or actions. suspicion towards wife gets thwarted when this is done frequently enough. ladies in the clear. <BR/><BR/>come on, ladies. you know you're berating him on the one hand, and preparing for your next side-bang on the other.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-34467966886833848502008-11-13T01:33:00.000-05:002008-11-13T01:33:00.000-05:00I enjoy your blogs and your writing style! :)<BR/><BR/>Men who do what you describe in this blog are lesser men. You do not respect your wife, and you are weak. Too weak to be honest or faithful. Have fun bending my words, but if you were honest with your wife, I would have ZERO problems with the situation.<BR/><BR/>cowardice and selfishness are not sexy. I went *proverbially* limp reading your blog today. Do better.*KIR*noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-39873760821909903262008-07-25T18:40:00.000-04:002008-07-25T18:40:00.000-04:00this was perfect. you are like yoda, full of wisdom...villageidiothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05704375956350816383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-4093829285404715292008-07-25T10:31:00.000-04:002008-07-25T10:31:00.000-04:00So J, your comment sounds so familiar. Have you ever tried relaxing outside your marriage? I mean with someone you know. I also read this blog, but, not to sound paranoid, offering handjobs to people over the Internet just because they tickled your imagination sounds a bit too relaxed. I am in a similar position, commited but a bit stale physical relationship.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-64976241814395499402008-07-21T19:16:00.000-04:002008-07-21T19:16:00.000-04:00A friend recommended your site. I must say I am offended by the constant use of the "N" word all over the place. Still, nigga, your story about the X ray glasses is MY story, man. Unbelievable. I went through the same pre-teen angst waiting for those MF's to show up in the mailbox, and when they did, in their shitty cardboard package, and I placed their shitty, japanese (back when that meant "not well made") frames on my prepubescent, eager to see-through-my-second-grade-teacher's-dress face and realized I'd been HAD, I lost my innocence. More than when Marcy Glass gave me the handjob in the back of Brian Sanderoff's car while Brian boned Tracey Cohen. It was WORSE than that. I'd been TRICKED. People had LIED. I know EXACTLY what you're talking about and like you, had to eventually find my porn elsewhere.<BR/><BR/>Good Story.Songomannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-31355689246989289492008-07-21T17:26:00.000-04:002008-07-21T17:26:00.000-04:00brosti,<BR/><BR/>you must be about 20 years old.You take everything so literally. You're so idealistic and so sweet.<BR/><BR/>My husband "paying" me is just a fantasy we have together. When you have been happily married for ten years with two kids then you get back to me, you hear?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-43111370765331060932008-07-21T13:20:00.000-04:002008-07-21T13:20:00.000-04:00@anonymous 10:34: stupid has nothing to do with it. C'mon, 'splain it to Lucy! Simile and metaphor come in handy when clinical language fails.<BR/><BR/>@generous_college_boy: how sweet, especially since you have no idea what sort of sasquatch you may be talking to! But honestly, the risk-versus-reward equation just doesn't add up for me. I was joking about the cuni stand, but still think it's a nice idea.<BR/><BR/>@those who think getting paid to fuck your husband is just <I>awesome</I>! Are you kidding me? 1) If I needed to be paid for that, I seriously think I would be looking elsewhere, and 2) the whole concept implies that the husband controls the finances. The idea of being 100% financially dependent on ANYBODY gives me serious heebie-jeebies. How can people live with absolute fiscal vulnerability by CHOICE? I have never understood this part of the marriage tradition.brostihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931004401864909240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-47872573169957823932008-07-21T06:28:00.000-04:002008-07-21T06:28:00.000-04:00fagonymous @ 5:44<BR/><BR/>yo holmes, bn won't tell u but i will - take your english professor ass and suck *MY* dick.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-3146385237110034662008-07-21T05:44:00.000-04:002008-07-21T05:44:00.000-04:00Yo, the PO is on 104th between Broadway and Amsterdam. And judgmental has no"e."<BR/>Great stuff but get your shit straight. Or why should we buy the rest?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-58002888307185597412008-07-21T02:01:00.000-04:002008-07-21T02:01:00.000-04:00ever considered that it's not your choice whether or not your wife knows the truth?<BR/><BR/>if it were her choice, to know the truth or to remain ignorant, what choice do you think she would make?<BR/><BR/>cheating is a terrible thing. we are not base animals.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-23946355946874671322008-07-19T15:08:00.000-04:002008-07-19T15:08:00.000-04:00BN, you are wayyyy younger than me. We moved to the UWS in '67 and I finally moved away for good in '89. My parents still live there though.<BR/>To give you an idea, we used to get out of school and go to Ray's or Ammal Pizza and get a slice.... for 25 cents. The Olympia theater (where we could shout at the bad guys on screen) on 106th was a dollar and I used to see <A HREF="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leroy_Barnes" REL="nofollow">Nicky Barnes</A> driving his Eldorado up Bway.<BR/>When I visit my parents now, I feel like I&#39;m in Beverly Hills with organic groceries and coffee shops on every corner. Not to mention you urban stroller pilots with your Bugaboos and Phil &amp; Teds. :)JJ Daddy-Ohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09276920260919916896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-60755162521436700652008-07-19T12:34:00.000-04:002008-07-19T12:34:00.000-04:00@hornery: never heard this one before<BR/><BR/>"women fuck to get the hug, men hug to get fucked?"<BR/><BR/>That jam t-o-t-a-l-l-y sums shit up for me. And Right on with the rest of what you said.<BR/><BR/>@anon 12:19 aka shy white girl: speak it out, sista! <BR/><BR/>Honestly, the take away from all of this shit for me is this: do whatever the fuck works for you.<BR/> <BR/>Marriage is hard ass work, no matter what your situation is (kids, no kids, rich, poor, etc). I don't care how much you love someone or how much they love you back, you've <I>still</I> gotta work like a dog to get that shit to stick. Leavin' stuff alone, closing your eyes and hoping for the best = doomsday, in my opinion. So if handjobs from white honeys on craigslist is your thing, coolio. If getting bangin bucks from your husband is your bag, more power to you. Whatever works for you, is what you should be doing. And really, who the fuck am I (or you, or you, or you) to judge??<BR/><BR/>one love.Elizanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-88578767180926574862008-07-19T11:32:00.000-04:002008-07-19T11:32:00.000-04:00when it comes to women and sex it's more complex (typically) then it is for a man. men (typically) like to boink, are thinking about boinking and just wanna boink any which way they can. several people on here have shown us that people "do" sex in a variety of ways and that we all have different beliefs about what's right/what's wrong. I think it's really up to the people doing the boinking (or the variation thereof to decide this). the thing i have a problem with is BN's secrecy and dishonesty regarding his sexual behavior as it relates to his wife and him getting serviced outside of his marriage. he's made several assumptions about what he believes his wife thinks and feels and what he believes she would or would not want. which interestingly and predicably all seem to support his (monthly) sex purchases from young, needy, white women.dawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17032041720182031563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-22025905326033962302008-07-19T10:42:00.000-04:002008-07-19T10:42:00.000-04:00@amelia_bedilia said...<BR/><BR/>"Retraction?Apology?" ...For what?? Oh right, I should apologize to the males I might have offended or I should apoligize to the ladies....so confused. <BR/><BR/>Thanks for the laugh.<BR/><BR/>I have to say I'm more disturbed that women are perpetuating the myth. I'm also more perplexed as I just read hornery's blog -- Your Cheating Wife. She has an open marriage (and kudos to her if that's what works for them), so she knows it's not about the cuddling.frdmexpnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-70161968197678804642008-07-19T06:21:00.000-04:002008-07-19T06:21:00.000-04:00You're not blogging from your home computer, are you? Because if you are, you may as well have just confessed to your wife, buddy.<BR/><BR/>Let us know how that goes . . .Mistress La Spliffehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07457471847776673647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-90355958982356558112008-07-19T02:23:00.000-04:002008-07-19T02:23:00.000-04:00@frdmexp <BR/><BR/>the quote you're attributing to a male delusional scumbag was posted by a woman. duh! Hornery is a woman. <BR/><BR/>As am I. <BR/><BR/>Retraction? Apology? Somehow, those never seem to materialize...amelia_bedilianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-22765715809122026912008-07-18T22:42:00.000-04:002008-07-18T22:42:00.000-04:00"Women are emotional creatures, and fantasize about foot rubs more than getting eaten out by some (Danger!) stranger."<BR/><BR/>I can assure you my friends are not fantasizing about foot rubs when then see a tasty man. Is this what men like to believe so they feel safe in their "mandom"...that their woman couldn't possibly be thinking "I want to fuck that cute guy walking by me." Please think again. Delusion is a comfortable yet false place to reside.frdmexpnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-14669449208836342162008-07-18T22:32:00.000-04:002008-07-18T22:32:00.000-04:00yes he pays me and it brings out the belle du hour in me. The whole whore thing is a total turn on for me. It was always my fantasy to be a call girl, almost went in that direction but couldn't go through with it.<BR/><BR/>Had a swedish looking friend who used to jerk off guys. Put herself through college this way. Charged about one hundred dolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-26203864789964835212008-07-18T19:33:00.000-04:002008-07-18T19:33:00.000-04:00wouldn't work for me and i honestly have a few thoughts about what you are doing and how you appear to be justifying it. but if it works for you AND your wife...then have at it.dawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17032041720182031563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-52105301754445221392008-07-18T17:16:00.000-04:002008-07-18T17:16:00.000-04:00i like the asian places better. Sol is particularly nice.thomashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09892672021996191386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-89434166154975956722008-07-18T16:47:00.000-04:002008-07-18T16:47:00.000-04:00hey Sway - that last comment of yours (4:35) was very thoughtful and human. Glad to have you around.<BR/><BR/>If it makes you feel any better, bn has never posted anything anywhere near this personal, and he doesn't tend to stay on the same topic, so I very much doubt this will be "in your face" - it's actually a lot more like amelia said, in that you're reading funny or though-provoking shit here, but not thinking about the personal aspects of the artist. This blog is far from a diary as I think most of us would agree...Cable Guynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-44576296196520947502008-07-18T16:35:00.000-04:002008-07-18T16:35:00.000-04:00Hey! I'm not a hypocrite OR a cow! Fuck all y'alls! And believe me I KNOW many of the artists/politicians I enjoy are/were cheating bastards. Hmm. You may have a point, then, that I should ignore the parts of BN's life/philosophy that bother me and just read the stuff I like? I can and will try, I guess. But: a blog about someone's personal real life seems different than a work of fiction or a painting. A bit harder to ignore someone's personal philosophy when that's what they're writing about, you know? <BR/><BR/>I also didn't mean my comment as a "threat." I just started reading BN like a week ago and am still figuring out what he's all about. I'm sure he doesn't care if he loses me as a reader.<BR/><BR/>And of course I'm a married woman; who cares? I never said I know everything about "those four groups" just that all adults think about fucking other people every now and again. Seemed uncontroversial to me.Swaynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-3984167595993464982008-07-18T16:17:00.000-04:002008-07-18T16:17:00.000-04:00Watch this, I'm psychic:<BR/><BR/>anonymous / 3:53 is a married uhhhhhhh WOMAN???! <BR/><BR/>It was a tough guess, since you know so much about all 4 groups (married / unmarried / man / woman)<BR/><BR/>Like I said I'm psychic.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5880985812663664693.post-40869028332112081052008-07-18T16:08:00.000-04:002008-07-18T16:08:00.000-04:00hey Sway - SHOVE it, you self-righteous, judgemental cow. Enough of the threats. You only enjoy art provided by morally-sound (or dishonest) artists? That's not going to leave you with a lot of art to choose from.<BR/><BR/>You can start by throwing out your Hemingway and your John Coltrane and your John Lennon. Plus, MLK is well-known to have had affairs all throughout his life - guess you won't be listening to him anymore either.<BR/><BR/>Beat it, ya park slope hypocrite.amelia_bedelianoreply@blogger.com